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MARY SLESSOR - "Obongawan Okoyong" (Queen of Okoyong)

Mary Mitchell Slessor was born in 1848 in Scotland to a poor family. Her father was an alcoholic and did not provide for his wife and 7 children. They lived in a slum. When Mary was 11, she worked 12 hours a day, 6 days a week, in a factory, attending school after work. Mary Slessor didn’t let a harsh childhood discourage her or hold her back. She made the best of her trials, and eventually they prepared her for greater challenges ahead.

Mary was “a wild lassie” before becoming a Christian. She got into all sorts of trouble and looked back then with amusement and shame. One day while Slessor was getting into mischief with her friends, an old widow beckoned them into her house. The widow described the horrors of Hell and the eternal torment facing those who didn’t know Jesus. (Do we ever think about it?)

Mary was entrenched by the missionary stories in the church monthly magazine. Mary’s favorite person to read about was David Livingstone. His life inspired her to pursue being a missionary in Africa. When Livingstone died in May 1873, Mary decided she would take the place of David. One day, a missionary came and spoke at Mary’s church. As he described the work being done in Africa, Mary’s eyes were opened. From that moment, she knew God was calling her to Africa. Responding to his call, Mary applied to become a missionary in Calabar, Nigeria. She was accepted and, after three months of training, was on a ship bound for Africa. (Who is our inspiration?)

Mary joined the mission in Calabar and started learning the native Efik language. But she was restless at the mission. She wanted to go farther into Africa—where no missionaries had gone before and lived to tell about it. Other missionaries told her this was very dangerous because the people were violent and practiced all kinds of terrible things such as cannibalism, drunkenness, and human sacrifice. The African people believed that, when twins were born, an evil spirit lived in one of the twins; since they didn’t know which one it was, both twins were killed and their mother was sent away with no way to care for herself. Mary wanted to share the gospel with these people.

Eventually Mary was allowed to go farther into Africa to the dangerous Okoyong people. Her work among these people focused on saving children, especially twins, and their mothers. She even adopted several babies and raised them herself. She urged the people to treat women and children better and to put an end to all the killing. By her deep love, she showed the people God’s love, and slowly many of these practices stopped.

Nigeria was never be the same after Mary arrived and shared Jesus with the people. She never stopped pushing farther into Africa, sharing the gospel with everyone and putting an end to killing and other horrible practices. The Africans regarded her as a loving and wise woman who would often settle their arguments. The government even gave her the role of magistrate, the first woman to ever hold such a position, so she could continue to help the people solve their problems without killing one another.

Mary refused to wear the British clothes and eat the expensive imported food the other missionaries wore and ate. Instead she lived like the African people she came to serve and they loved her for it. Her attitude helped shape missions and changed the way missionaries lived and served. People lovingly called her as ‘Ma’. By her love and respect for the African people and her willingness to go where no one else would, Mary helped open that part of Africa, build schools and churches, and put an end to many terrible practices. Mary died in Africa in 1915 and was buried in Calabar, near the mission where she first served. Mary Slessor was a fearless missionary who brought peace to the warring tribes.

Let us also be peacemakers like Mary wherever we are.

A difficult childhood prepared Mary Slessor for a difficult mission work.

May God help us to understand, all that we go through has a purpose.

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